Author: Mark-Anthony Villaflor

A one-eyed Filipino American with an amazing wife. Left his French Bulldog in the states to go on a year long honeymoon with his wife. Lover of basketball, travel, education, and reading. Currently trying to deconstruct and unlearn my formal miseducation. Breathing, smiling, and giving thanks each day! 50% of 365traveldates.com

It Gets Me Real Pissed Off And It Makes Me Wanna Say…

Just a normal shitty day traveling. Awesome thoughts here. Good work LookWhatWeDone!

LOOK WHAT WE DONE!

We’re in a guesthouse in Lima right now. There’s not been any toilet paper in the bathroom for the last day; the shower takes ten minutes to be warm enough to even dip a toe in; and we got three single beds instead of double in our room. We’re also just sorting out our ‘social media’ (what a fucking stupid term, it irritates me every time I hear it; it’s so obvious some middle-aged man in an ill-fitting suit made it up and ordered a raft of internet-savvy employees to ‘make it happen’) which is really rosy and happy and totally a travel brag. I did say to check our blog for the behind the scenes, but even our blogs are pretty positive. So now let me give you the true behind the scenes. Let me tell you all the ugly bits…

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Finding Rocky Bullwinkle in Rocky Mountain National Park, Colorado

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Having breakfast with this view is pretty spectacular

Trying to beat the rain of Teton and Yellowstone we stayed for a few days before continually hearing persistent weather reports of more than 50% chances of rain for the next week ahead. We decided to start our drive south towards Colorado and through Wyoming. Further south we lucked out and had a fabulous couple of days in Rocky Mountain National Park with only a drizzle here and there.

We entered from the Grand Lake entrance in the southwest corner of the park we made our way into our campground 7 miles in to Timber Creek Campground. $20 got us a small lot of land enough for our tent, a fire pit, picnic table and a parking spot. The set up was no showers, clean bathrooms, a place with $5 bundles firewood, and elk, deer, bears and other wildlife roaming through the campground at no extra cost. The rangers lead a night program throughout the week as the sun goes down behind the Rocky Mountains. In the 415 square miles of protected mountain environment we drove past elk, moose, deer, and saw a fox on our hike to Cascade Falls. The park supports various ecosystems and biotic zones based on support of trees, precipitation, geographic aspect and elevation these systems include Alpine Tundra, Subalpine, montane, plains, and wetland ecosystems. Gigantic peaks (over 100 peaks at more than 10k feet above sea level), deep valleys, tree lines bordering harsh lands of the tundra, pine trees, spruce, and firs, hillsides, and wildlife supported by the waterfalls, creeks, and lakes is a brief description of what the we got ourselves into for 2 days.

We hiked a trail with a gentle elevation change of a couple hundred feet for 5.5 kilometers into the Cascade Falls. We set out later (3pm) then we’d have liked after driving from our stay in RV World Campground in southern Wyoming and setting up camp. During the hike thunderstorms were in site but only a few drops hit our path. On one side we had dark clouds and on the other blue skies. The highlight of the hike was seeing a fox trotting with a chipmunk or squirrel in its mouth. I was ahead on the trail with my head down and it came right towards me, Camille said “Babe, Fox!” and my initial reaction was to simply do a 180 turn around and jog back to Camille to protect her. Not sure what was happening but I’d like to think that my first instinct was to protect Camille. She’s not convinced. Her interpretation was my first reaction was to run away scared and second was to grab the camera. We didn’t get to our cameras in time but have this shot below of the back of the fox from Camille’s iPhone.

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Bullwinkle’s cousin

Got back to our car and Camille noticed a flat tire. We looked for a gas station to help us out and on our way saw a huge moose, a common sight in Rocky Mountain Park. Took a few pictures while trying to figure out this tire situation. It was 7pm and there weren’t many people looking to help us. We saw a man wiping down his Harley and asked him if he would help out. He took 20 minutes of his time to help us out and get us on our way and denied us the pleasure of buying him a beer several times. Lesson learned was to simply ask people from help. People all around America and all around the world are kind, compassionate, and looking for ways to help. People have continued to pay it forward without a post on Facebook announcing there generosity, further teaching us to continue to be loved and love. Thanks Gary the Harley rider from somewhere an hour outside of Houston!

Generosity through a tire change

Of course this was only the start of our car issues in a 2003 Toyota 4runner borrowed from my pops as he was on his way to the Philippines to build his retirement home. 323,000 plus miles and about 4000-5000 more ahead of us on our current road trip we’re sitting at the Toyota dealership waiting for the car to be ready for us to move onwards to and through Kansas and Oklahoma. Our next post should be on our time in Boulder, Colorado which was rejuvenating in so many ways. Thanks for the read, support, love, comments, and inspiration.

 

Lucas, Kansas- Being comfortable and appreciative wherever you are

The decision to not camp and do an Airbnb instead was an absolutely unforgettable one. The surrounding was a rural Kansas town with a small population of 400 people spread across a large  flat space. The downtown was in the middle of a 4 x 4 block radius and was 20 miles off the main interstate. Our host Mary Ann happened to be the caretaker of the home we stayed in, a local tour guide of the historical Garden of Eden home, the city library director, and a member various committees and boards in town. She was a huge advocate of the Grassroots Art Center and it’s movement. Mary Ann also volunteered at the local theatre that only played one showing each Friday, Saturday and Sunday night. Who else would be more perfect of a host and guide to all the local insights of one of the 8 wonders of Kansas Art (yes there are 8 in Kansas).

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Shoot over a scenic byway off the I-70 go north and drive towards Lucas, KS. Of course you’ve never heard of it.  The entire atmosphere during out time in Kansas was spectacular. Coming from a polluted first tier city in Shanghai into the plains, flat lands, of Kansas, the sky is going to look a lot different. Sure it’s a flat drive with not much to look at but after getting the car back from the mechanic the last thing we wanted to do was put more stress on the car through mountains or winding roads. Don’t get us wrong that was an incredible drive through the Rocky Mountains. This was just different for us being past our 2000 mile (3200 km) tick since we left Oak Harbor to mark our 3rd year anniversary.

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To say we hit a stride was an understatement. Wanting to be sure of it’s term and idiomatic expression I checked online and found it to mean- 1. To achieve a steady, effective pace; 2. To attain a maximum level of competence. Marathon runners understand the transition of a slow build-up of a warm up in the first couple miles to hitting a stride that will take them through to the end of the race. Of course that is until certain obstacles come through to hit us.

We were on our 7th week of travel and got in a groove able to move steadily, effectively and feel like we’ve hit a good level of competence in the art of moving through America in pace comfortable not only for myself but for my spouse. Kansas was affirmation of what we’ve achieved in the past month and a half. You should absolutely celebrate milestones, goals and progress. No matter how many days, miles, or other arbitrary number you hit in defining these it’s important to take wins on the road. With relief from our car issues we reflected the humps and bumps on the road. The summer we’ve had and continue to have would be enough for a life time of memories for the “average” couple. We are content with where we are at in our lives, relationship, and general world; to say otherwise would be an insult to the blessings that have been given to us through the generosity received throughout our lives and this trip. Gratitude rant.

Our home for the night was a home built in the 1920s with a quaint rural charm. The decor included a photographic portfolio essay. 3 sheets in framed, first the cover Garden of Eden- Cabin Home, an index of the 9 black and white pictures situated in various walls of the house with captions explaining the history of the Garden of Eden, and a beautiful essay entitled Bughouse Boogie by Steve Paul explaining the history and feel of the cabin home built in 1905-1907. Naturally in a setting like this there are a couple of dead animals and antlers laying around and mounted on the walls. Our neighboring home directly across was the street was the Garden of Eden with the Museum of the World Largest Collection of the World’s Smallest Versions of the World’s Largest Things next to that. Our neighbor and and our parking spot was a hip antique store full of various rustic things painted over to look like novel products.

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Garden Of Eden

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Worlds Largest Collection of the World Smallest Versions of the Worlds Largest things

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some of the stuff inside the truck

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Lucas, Kansas

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a really cool orange bike

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The next day was a 5 hour drive to Tulsa, Oklahoma. But before the drive we were encouraged to hit up the other sites of the grassroots art town. We went to the Bowl Plaza on Main street. This was a very quirky public restroom using green motives of recycling. It looks like a sunken toilet with a wall full of mosaic art and a glass bottle construction.

And for all you budget travelers the cost came at a cool $40. Join the other 10,000-15,000 other annual visitors at the Garden of Eden for just a few bucks. The Toilet Bowl Plaza was free so go have a peek. Lastly, we couldn’t leave without picking up some homemade sausage and cheese from Brandt’s sausage joint just next to the Toilet Bowl Plaza a cheap local lunch/snack for the road and we were off to Tulsa.

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Dead Animals Bass Pro Shop Outdoor World- An epic display of taxidermy

Visit San Antonio, they’re real friendly out here. The people of San Antonio are some of the friendliest we’ve encountered in America.

 

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as you enter their main door

This post is mainly about the experience we had at the Bass Pro Sports- Outdoor World store. I had impressions of what it would look like in my mind and asked Aaron if this would meet expectations as we were both screaming in the car to stop and take a look while the girls were trying to calm us down. He was quite enthusiastic and adamant that we go visit and that our expectations would be exceeded. Upon parking and walking to the front of the store we saw a myriad amount of antlers and animal skulls. This was all in preparation for entering the largest collection of taxidermy I’ve ever encountered. Seeing animals in real life throughout the various parks a few weeks prior to this visit seemed unreal. To see the end product of the art of preparing, stuffing and mounting the skins of animals with lifelike effect was indescribable. We went through the doors and were hit with the incredible cold air-conditioning you see in the America. There is no moderation here. It’s cold or go home! We made our way up the stairs towards the African animals. This was all quite comparable to the American Natural History museum we visited in New York with all the dinosaurs and other animals on display. One striking difference was the camping, hunting and fishing apparel sold next to the animals. Obviously we weren’t shopping. We visited the African animals section educating ourselves of what Africa’s big five consists of. From there we circled around seeing much of the deer family including various foes, does, elk, moose, and caribou along the walls. Slowly we we’re encouraged by the ladies to get our butts moving to eat dinner.

For some reason Aaron kept wanting to eat a hot dog and insisted they had some. We went downstairs looked at the 28,000 gallon aquarium which featured the various species of fresh water fish likely found in Texas including catfish, carp, a huge alligator gar, bass, and much more. Looking at the website to confirm some facts we found that there was an archery range where you could practice your bow skills. Additionally, there is a casting demo for those interested in fishing and learning the movement of lures and how fish react to them.

Our other friend Casandra stopped us and asked, “Do you we smelled that?” That “that” was syrup and pancakes. We didn’t find the syrup and pancakes but instead stumbled upon a vendor of fudge. This created the impression of San Antonio being such a friendly place because of the people we interacted with. For me the idea of handing people various fudge flavors and seeing their reactions and smiles would be a great job. Needless to say the fudge confectionist was friendly. We ended up trying the following flavors-  cookies and Cream, orange creme soda, truffle, peanut butter chocolate, Butterfinger, Nestle Tolls Butterscotch, and mint chocolate. We went with the cookies and cream and the orange soda. He rang us up, $7.04. I asked Camille for 4 cents and upon doing so an older lady (likely retired) was trying to find some pennies. She said she didn’t have 4 cents but provided us with the 3 cents we were short after finding our own penny. I thanked her and was on my way. Her husband came by and asked her what that was all about. She told him loud enough for us to hear that she had just given me a smooch (smooch being her word for kiss). I jokingly ran away, told my friend Aaron, “This guy is probably an ex-Marine or military guy!” As I mentioned this he had turned around wearing a Navy hat, clearly retired and said he hoped his wife wasn’t giving me a hard time. We thanked the couple and made our way out. When we were walking to our car we saw the both of them very close together holding hands and being 2 young couples we really appreciated the kindness they had towards us and their love towards each other. Budget travelers another free cultural experience, welcome to southern hospitality in San Antonio friends!

Coney Island- Flashflood warnings, rollercoasters, and hot dog eating contests

Walking the 3 blocks from the Coney Island metro station to our Airbnb involved homeless people on the street, a mix of Italian Delis, nondescript Mexican and Chinese restaurants, women calling each other bitches and arguing, while a variety of color folk incessantly called each other nigga, one block eastward brought us to the Boardwalk, and any further from 17th St onwards was recommended off-limits due to the dense population of more aggressive neighbors. Our reason for a quick 2 days was a break before the city and the smell of ocean from New York City’s finest beaches…..

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selfie with Jackie Robinson

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many people were doing this by the beach. Looked like the hairy crabs from Shanghai

We were hosted by a Puerto Rican couple, the wife Isabella running a baker, and the male counterpart a man of the community, hustling in trying to beat the expected rain and  flash flood warnings, while on his way to run a track practice for the kids. Our trip started with a quick drop-off of a rental car at the Atlanta airport, a short  2?3 hour flight, boarding of the Long Island Railway Road (soon to be on strike), an hour (longer) on the New York metro from one end of the city to the last stop on the N/D train. Tired and with the anticipation that we’d wouldn’t get a chance to go for a swim later as a result of flash floods we threw our bags down, brought in some Mexican food, and watched the Home and Garden Television (HGTV) for the next few hours.

The next day (rather morning) proved sufficient enough for us to stroll around, forgetting our sunscreen, gaining sunburns and enjoying the beach and boardwalk until it decided to rain from 3pm onwards. Prior to the pour was a gentle (and safe) walk from our Airbnb to the pier where some of the locals were fishing and crabbing, others jogging and biking, and beating the heat by dipping into the cold Atlantic ocean. It was a weekday the beach wasn’t very full but there were groups of summer camp kids and school buses lined up near the amusement park.
The first site we saw was a statue of Jackie Robinson who we’d learned was born in Georgia and welcome sign considering this was where we’d just arrived from. Walking past the minor league Brooklyn baseball team stadium revealed the city’s dedication commemoration to the victims of 9/11 as we came across Brooklyn’s Wall of Remembrance, just a glimpse of what we’d later see at the 9/11 Memorial where the World Trade Center buildings once stood.

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Wall of Remembrance

Once at the beach we dipped our feet in the water as the noon sun scorched us. I would later decide that I needed to go for a swim as I’d never gone for a swim in the Atlantic. Making our way back towards the amusement park we watched as teenagers and children strapped into various rides feeling confident that they wouldn’t cry or scream, their reactions to the contrary. Seeing others unnecessary fear somehow brought laughter to our spirits and again I decided to set myself up with the idea of doing something after a quick rest at our apartment. I tried to figure out what rides I would go on but didn’t find that most were worth the cost as a roller coaster enthusiast I would have rather preferred to go a Six Flags and have the all my internal organs pulled up to the top my my head, spun around, dropped, flipped and turned every which way at unimaginable speeds. The fast I saw was the Thunderbolt which I didn’t feel was intense enough. However, being in Coney I most definitely needed to get on Cyclone one of America’s finest wooden roller coasters. Note that Camille had and has no desire to ever get on a roller coaster again after her first and only ride on a wooden roller coaster in Shanghai.
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America is fat, it’s so fat it proudly serves as the home of the International Hot Dog Eating Contest. What better way for Nathan’s to celebrate America’s birthday but by hosting this contest each 4th of July. On one side of Nathan’s is a board red lighted up with the days, hours, minutes, and seconds till the next contest. Just below the countdown is the female record of 45 hotdogs by Sonya Thomas and 69 for the gentleman Joey Chestnut. They came. They ate. They conquered. We had a share of a chili cheese dog and french fries slopped with bacon and cheese and weren’t even able to finish between the two of us.

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Full, hot, and ready for some sunscreen to hit the beach we made our way back to the apartment where we’d get provision for the next couple hours. But as we got up bully from the debauchery of bacon, chili, and cheese on a bit of hot dog and fries huge clouds appeared aways away in the middle of the ocean. Fortunately we got back before the downpour. Unfortunately we we’re unable to have our first swim in the Atlantic or go on any rides. More HGTV, a humungous meatball sub from the Italian Deli a block in the safer direction, and we retired for the rest of the day/night, happy for the rest before running around the city with mom and dad.

In case you were wondering, I did get to go on the Cyclone and it was exhilarating, Camille gladly took a video and photos. A man from California and his family including what seemed like 6-8 kids stood in line behind us began to give me a brief history of the roller coaster having mentioned it was built in the 40s renovated/upgraded once in the 70s maybe just before he’d ridden it last. He mentioned it seemed the same today as it did back then which was of some comfort to know that I would get an antique roller coaster experience. I was able to sit in the front but without my partner for life had too much space which allowed the turns and jerks to pull me from one side of the seat to the next. The screeching, whistling, thudding, and rustic feel of the roller coaster as it ran it’s course was a bit intoxicating and all for $9. From here onwards to a more tame metro ride into the Sunset Park/Park Slope neighborhood where we would be staying for the next 4 nights.

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Wrigley Field Baseball Date

Bear hug in between innings

Bear hug in between innings

Welcome to America’s greatest summer pastime BASEBALL! Our relatives, living in the suburbs 45 minutes outside of Chicago drove us the end of the CTA Blue Line to avoid the terrible inbound and outbound traffic not to mention the city parking fees. A quick 30 minutes on the Blue line an another slightly quicker 20 minutes on the Red Line brought us to the Addison stop, 2 stops from Wrigley Field. Being a terrible season (and even during most seasons) we got to Chicago without tickets knowing/hoping we could easily save money getting scapled tickets right outside one of baseballs most famous, classic Wrigley Field. We bought “cheap” seats for $30 bucks a piece for tickets that would have been $45 from the ticket booth or more online for the more than 41,000 seating capacity. We never actually looked for our sat in our seats. The baseball experience dictates a walk around the park in between innings and during the game, occasionally stopping in random seats to take a break from walking to a enjoy cold beer and a better view than what you’ve purchased. We started by sitting in $130 seats for the first couple of innings a long the first base line with an entire 1st row to ourselves, $35 seats at the foul pole in left field with a row of teachers and Cubs fanatics on summer holiday and, and ended up in $120 seats behind home plate next to Montreal natives definitely getting more than expected with our $30 seats.

Sitting next to various locals we gained insight to the history of the stadiums not previously knowing that Wrigley Field was celebrating it’s 100th year. The park has a lot of characteristics unique only to Chicago. For example the outfield brick walls are the only professional baseball team stadium covered ivy where balls can either be called in play or where players at the wall can raise their hands up indicating their unwillingness to keep the ball in play. Other features include a manually hand-turned scoreboard of the game and from other ongoing games. A middle-school teacher in a White Cubs uniform continued, telling us that the pitcher from last night’s ball game was typically in charge of changing the numbers on the board (I haven’t looked enough into this to verify though). The scoreboard is located at center field is is high enough that no one has ever hit the scoreboard with a baseball. Another mention was the upgrades from the “original” park including the addition of lights in the late 80s, some very recent, much-needed upgrades to the bathrooms, added restaurants and TVs at the food stands.

This year has been a losing year for the Cubs and we discussed the seating, views, and costs of the game. It was fun to learn that in addition to the stadium capacity the surrounding neighborhoods provide rooftops seats with views of the game. While most stadiums would build obstructions to these views from “freeloaders” the Cubs let it go until recently the 90s when they started receiving revenue from the rooftop owners, mainly bars and restaurants. The seats on the rooftop are essentially outfield seats and atet a $100 a pop. Considering we were passed by various food and beer vendors with prices varying from $8-9 dollars for a beer, $5 for a bag of peanuts or a hot dog, the $100 could be worth it if you were wanting a night of debauchery as it includes “free” food. After a quick search about the rooftops we found that rooftop BBQs were common and that these particular ones outside Wrigley pre-dates the stadium that is celebrating their centennial anniversary.

If you ever find yourself in an American baseball stadium grab a beer, some peanuts, find an empty seat anywhere in the stadium and strike up a conversation. There are tons of season ticket holders who will gladly grumble about long losing seasons and recent and not so recent successful years. We were fortunate to find ourselves next to this teacher who was such a huge fan that she claimed to fill in a couple of coach buses to get others to the stadium and that she dreams of seeing every stadium in America and does a tour of stadiums to check off her list every couple of years. Oh the joys of teaching and having a summer off to travel across America visiting all the 30 Major League Baseball stadiums!